We Left the City and Never Looked Back

You're not alone if you ever dream of a fresh start in the nation. Hear what it resembles from 3 families who really made the leap.
Who hasn't imagined dropping city life and moving to the country? Perhaps you've invested weekend trips turning through the regional genuine estate listings, baffled by how far a dollar can extend: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the dive, moving from Seattle to a little summertime town in Maine. I began photographing these people and interviewing them about their accomplishments and difficulties in transitioning to nation living. The project took flight instantly-- plainly I wasn't the only one thinking about leaving the city.

Do not take it from me, though. Hear it from these 3 families who left the city behind for a clean slate.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can check out more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Country.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a family of New Yorkers discovered a wacky house in the Berkshires at a third the cost of their city coop, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what many New york city households would think about a dream scenario-- a three-bedroom coop house in a desirable Brooklyn community. It was sufficient area for their household of 5, without any concern of a rent hike. To afford living in the city, though, both Kenzie and Shawn had to work long hours. Shawn, a painter and illustrator, worked as a studio assistant for an established artist and was only able to develop his own operate in his off hours.

When Kenzie's parents moved to the Berkshires, an innovative hub in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields household came for a visit and began dreaming of leaving the city behind. "It felt like an inspired concept," keeps in mind Shawn. "On what I believed was a lark, we looked at a house in a town with a terrific little school," states Shawn.

Relocated to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their household to New Marlborough. "Residing in a town in the nation was a good answer for us," says Kenzie. "We're steps from a post office, library, vehicle mechanic and a basic store. We live throughout from a hurrying creek, which is soothing. There's no deafening rural silence. Rural does not need to suggest empty and huge."

Rather of continuing to strive to even more the professions of other artists, the couple decided to focus their efforts on building Shawn's fine-art business. Giving up their steady city earnings while taking on the costs of winter season heating and taking care of an old house hasn't been a cakewalk, however they can't think of going back to the cramped boundaries of city living.

Entering their home resembles strolling into one of Shawn's narrative paintings. On a normal day, their child, Honey, might welcome you in the yard with a pet bunny, their child Peter may follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other kid Odie might use to perform a magic technique. They have gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to change their cottage into a cozy, eccentric wonderland.

The kids have much more liberty to explore now-- they invest hours playing in the creek by their home and volunteering at the library down the street. And they have actually all discovered, states Kenzie, that "the opportunity to care is more present when you're out of the frustrating scale of a city. When my mother passed away, individuals we didn't understand well left whole meals on our patio."

They love the natural setting of their new life, says Kenzie. "Playing charades with our neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, town hall conferences.

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet discovered the peaceful he requires to compose-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a small Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's 2nd inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today motivated the country. What the majority of individuals do not understand is that, recalling, he's not sure he would have been able to compose the poem if he hadn't been confined to his writing desk, surrounded by pine forests piled high with snow, up on a mountainside in his new home in St Louis, Missouri.

Prior to relocating to Maine, Richard lived many of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and composing in his extra time when his partner, Mark, got a job that required the couple to relocate to the small ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Although Richard was a little anxious at first, he was excited at the possibility of leaving the traffic and noise of city life and having the opportunity to compose more.

And he now understands that living in the country was a natural for him. "I think I have actually constantly desired to move to the nation," he says. Many of my household is from rural areas in Cuba, and I felt extremely at house there."

Relocated to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't understand how this small town would receive them, but they have been happily shocked. St Louis has actually invited "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were described for a while, with open arms. Richard is a respected member of the community and-- because the inauguration-- a town star.

It's been a change. "After that honeymoon stage, the very first thing that started to scold on me was having to drive everywhere," says Richard. And shopping is tricky: "I reside in a resort town, so I can get sushi, however I can't get inkjet cartridges or underclothing." To his surprise, he also missed going out: "Sometimes you simply desire to dress up and feel magnificent-- and there is no place to do that. I've outgrown all my matches living here." He likewise misses the anonymity of city life: "There is no such thing as simply a waiter in St Louis. You know their entire life, and you understand their children, where they grew up ... and they understand everything view publisher site about you. It's beautiful, however sometimes Mark and I will wish to head out to discuss something over supper and ... the walls have ears."

"After a year of fighting the elements, I had to make decisions about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," says Richard. "I got a little brought away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I initially came here for.

After moving to the country, Richard initially continued to work remotely on contract engineering jobs, but the less expensive cost of living in Maine enabled him to shift focus and prioritize his poetry. And because 2013, he's been able to work practically completely as a writer, leaving his engineering career behind. He has composed 2 acclaimed memoirs and various poems. He has taught composing workshops all over the world and simply completed his first fine-press book, Boundaries. Several weeks prior to he made the journey to DC for the 2013 inauguration, he notoriously practiced his poem to an audience of snowmen in his front yard.

He offers the location where he lives a lot of credit for all this. Life in the nation has offered him space and time to concentrate on his writing. And perhaps more notably, it has lastly given him a location that feels like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise business obstacle turned these Silicon Valley entrepreneurs into a family of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A couple of years ago, Joe and Ashley Duggers ran and owned 11 companies in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a finding out center, a maker space, a flower designer store and a play space for toddlers, just among others. All this in addition to raising four women under the age of 6. They valued their hectic, full lives however worried that the affluence of Silicon Valley would offer their children a skewed perspective on the world.

This led them to a new potential endeavor-- running an animals cattle ranch that could provide meat to their restaurant. The property had 2 houses, one a historical Victorian in desperate requirement of repair and one a relaxing two-bedroom cabin. They jumped in and acquired the residential or commercial property in 2013, hoping to one day discover a way to move to the cattle ranch full time.

Relocated to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
"We constantly had a desire to raise our kids in broad open areas in a more rural neighborhood," states Ashley. "Joe grew up on a farm original site and hoped we 'd get back to the land sooner or later. We offered our organisations and moved up the day our earliest child ended up kindergarten and have actually been all-in ever since."

After 4 years of difficult work, the Duggers have constructed an effective pasture-raised meat business. Looking for more ways to make a living off the land, this year they released Five Ashley Retreats, where they host women at their hillside cattle ranch camp for a weekend of farm chores and cooking classes.

The Duggers don't have the conveniences, tidy clothing or free time they had in their previous life, and have had to become more self-dependent: "In the city, I might get anything done at the drop of a hat," states Ashley. Everything moves a little more slowly, but living on a ranch indicates you can construct anything you can envision yourself, which is more satisfying than hiring someone to do it."

Another payoff is seeing their women turn into courageous, diligent and independent free-range females. "My ladies' preferred motto is 'where there is a will, there's a way,' and we all have to press tough to make it all take place!" states Ashley. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe like to mix a mixed drink, put a 5 Ashley roast in the oven and rest on their front porch to watch their children run complimentary in the lawn.

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